All of us have at a time lived negatively or are still living negatively. There is a lot of negativity within us where people are afraid to express themselves as to being afraid of negative response. Everything that we as human beings do is for ourselves and you can't afford to make anyone happy if you are not happy yourself. It has to start with you first and what you want in your life nobody can take away from you.
Here are few steps to help you forget all your worries:

Note: before reading this, pls be ready to adhere strictly to all that you are going to be reading

1. Anything that happens in your life affects you, and the outcome depends on you and how you choose to overcome the situation. 

Anything that happens in your life affects you, and the outcome depends on you and how you choose to overcome the situation
worry

You make yourself happy by changing negative thoughts into positive thoughts. You make yourself happy by the choices you make, both ethical choices and practical choices. If a tornado blows your house down, you can be glad to be alive or miserable because you lost all your stuff or feel both - but paying more attention to being glad you're alive is a way to pick yourself up and rebuild a lot better. Just think, that ghastly vase from your aunt is gone too now. There is always a high side and always a funny side even if those are the same thing.


2. It is up to you to find happiness by changing your behavior if something does indeed bother you.

It is up to you to find happiness by changing your behavior if something does indeed bother you.

 This can include changing your context. If you don't fit in well with people where you live now, it could be that you'd fit in better if you went back home where everyone reacts to things the way you do and can tell if you're just joking. Or if you didn't fit in at all where you grew up, there may be a different region where the social climate is much closer to your way of life.

3. Setting and doing your best to achieve goals, will allow your dreams to come true.


Setting and doing your best to achieve goals, will allow your dreams to come true.
Goal setters are pace setters

 Set them reasonably. Set a lot of small goals for steps along the way to achieve big goals. Having at least one small achievement a day does wonders for having a good attitude in life and something to look forward to. Don't put a hard deadline on the big goals, life happens and sometimes they get put off or come into reach sooner. Success in the little day-goals will get you going in the right direction.

4. Taking advice from others is good, however, you are the only one that knows whether the advice will help you. 

Taking advice from others is good, however, you are the only one that knows whether the advice will help you.
Listen To Advice especially from the older ones

If you tried it and it didn't work, trying again might not be a bad idea. If you tried it too many times and it never worked, stop and rethink it. Something is missing and it isn't always your will power. Try something else and test it with small daily goals, see what you get with other ways to achieve your goals.

5. Positive thinking will absolutely make your life better, and you should keep that in mind.
Positive thinking will absolutely make your life better, and you should keep that in mind.
Do believe all is well at every point in time


 All or nothing is not positive thinking. Positive thinking is something else - it's looking at things as they are and choosing to pay a little more attention to the good things, small kindnesses, small beauties in life and share those rather than sharing the equally inevitable gripes. It's not some grand disbelief that bad things ever happen or that everyone is nice and it sure isn't ripping into someone who isn't being positive because they're ruining the positivity by their tears. It's sharing a bit of compassion for them and moving on knowing you were kind. It's seeing a dewdrop on a weed and remembering there is beauty, no matter where you are there is always beauty for those who look for it.


6. When you are happy, look inside of yourself to understand what is making you happy -- if you understand why you are happy, it is then you can learn to control and arrange your life to maximize situations in which you'll be happy.

Life wouldn't always give you happiness, you create it, what you do becomes part of you, therefore don't be sad, or look pitied
Happy is the pill to good living
 People question themselves when things go wrong in a natural desire to figure it out so it doesn't happen again. Do that when you're happy to figure out how to make it happen again too! Also when you are sorting out what went wrong, stand back from it a little and don't just look at it in black and white. Look at it from all sides.


Tips on Eradicating Peer Influence For Positive way of Life

  • Nobody can take away your happiness without your permission.
  • That also means taking others in their own terms and trying to understand them, look at things from their perspective and you'll have a better idea of why they react the way they do. You may know what you want in life and they may want to protect you by steering you into something you're less suited for. Parents do this a lot with the best intentions and don't always understand when they are crushing a child's dream or imposing one of their dreams on a child who's not cut out for it. Teachers do it often too. Ultimately you're the one who has to live in your life, so people who care about you can be wrong and that doesn't mean they don't care.
  • If you agree with the oppressor, you are helping them oppress you. Know your own ethics, build a sense of right and wrong for yourself looking at all the moral questions in life and hold on to your integrity. Being wrong doesn't always make them bad people, well intentioned good people can do twice as much harm sometimes.
  • To have a fruitful, happy life and give joy to others as well, you have to make yourself happy first.
  • Happiness will be achieved , when you start to think positive.
  • Try to think about yourself sometimes as well. If you don't take care of yourself, you will not have the resources to take care of anybody else. 
  • So balance your love of others with your own real needs and don't neglect either.
  • Everything you do, you do for yourself and everyone is for themselves so even if you do things to please other people you won't be happy in the end.
  • Nobody is going to make sure you are sorted if you don't sort it yourself out. Those that think they can may sometimes do you a lot of harm with the best intentions in the world and waste their efforts.

Warnings!

  • Avoid those that add negativity to your life.
  • Avoid those always pull you down.
  • Never attempt to satisfy immediate desire by compromising your integrity.
  • Avoid those that never give you valuable advice.
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